Sanity's Haven 🌹

Afterall, I guess they never really understand a thing.  They never knew what she felt.  They never knew how hard it is for her to be tormented from all the hardships she had been through.  They never knew those crying nights.  They never knew those dull days.  They never see in her eyes that she was drowning from the past, badly screaming inside and asking for help.  But nobody does.  She thought she'll keep it up all by herself. She doesn't want her family to be bothered by it.  They will just worry somehow.  It's driving her dang crazy.  It's like living a peculiar life.  All she wants was for them to fathom every decision she was making. To comprehend her after all she'd been through.

Your feelings are valid. You are allowed to express every thing that you feel. You can show your smile when you remember something good. You can crack laughters. You can cry those pains out. You can be angry. You can be alone. You can meditate. You can be sassy at times. You can be a badass if you want. You can say no. You can do everything you want that you think you needed to make you sane. Darling you can do it. I'm telling you do the things that you like without considering or thinking what other people will say. Because everybody else has to say whether you do something good or bad. Remember NOBODY can dictate how you should feel or react. You own your feelings. You own your heart. You own your moment. YOU OWN YOURSELF.

New Year. New Life. New Chances. New Beginnings.  Everybody is making a list of things and habits they want to leave from the past. The usual New Year's resolutions. I will be strict on my diet on this year to be sexy and meet some hot guys .  Well this a good New Year's resolution but I don't like it. It will be best if you work out try doing exercises for yourself, for your health and for self-love. Some people will have resolutions to make themselves better and improve and that is a good thing actually. The problem is they tend to do it to impress and be loved by other people, to fit in and feel belong. This is unhealthy. This is the start of insecurities and toxicity of life leading to mental and emotional issues. Some finally decided to help themselves  and get their life together by starting to finally clean their place. The dirty bedrooms, messy clothes that are scattered everywhere, old habits dragging them down and even toxic relatioships with their lovers and fri